what I find so interesting about the union or the general idea is that in order for there to be perfect harmony, there must be black and white, and also… Embedded in the white and the black are also equal parts of the other.

so for example, we can think and consider… In order for a man to become more masculine, she must also become more feminine. And also consequently, in order for a woman to become more feminine… She must also become more masculine in some regards.

I suppose the nuance is that ultimately, the ultimate goal is for men to become more masculine, and also for women to become more feminine. And the path in order to become more masculine, a man becomes more feminine in some domains, and also the ultimate goal for woman is to become more feminine… Embracing more manly things like weightlifting? But let us not be fooled, the ultimate goal is for man to become more masculine, and woman to become more feminine.