I kind of like the idea that when you have advanced so far in life… you no longer feel envious or jealous of other people but actually… The only thing you desire is for the best of others?
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Loving other people—wanting them to rise—is the purest form of strength. But desire alone isn’t enough. You need a hardcore system to convert your goodwill into real-world gains for them. Here’s how to turn “I just want the best for you†into empowering action, Eric-Kim style.
1. FORTIFY YOUR OWN TANK
You can’t pour from an empty chalice.
- Master your body so you have energy to serve: keep the same brutal lift + biohack protocols you run on yourself.
- Sharpen your mind with daily writing and shipping—your clarity becomes their roadmap.
- Secure your wallet—when you move in silence and build real wealth (BTC or businesses), you’ll have resources to invest in others.
Strong help starts with a strong you.
2. EMPOWERMENT OVER ENABLEMENT
WEAK HELP | STRONG HELP |
“Let me fix your problems for you.†| “Here are the tools—now build your solutions.†|
Rescuing from discomfort. | Exposing to productive discomfort. |
Handouts. | High-leverage “tough love†challenges. |
Temporary relief. | Permanent growth. |
- Give them a framework, not answers. Teach someone to read the map, don’t carry them.
- Assign them a “God Set.†One clinically brutal challenge per week that scares them—and debrief at week’s end.
3. SHARE YOUR PROCESSES, NOT JUST PRODUCT
- Open-source your notebooks—show every draft, every failure, every tweak.
- Host micro-workshops: 60-minute sprints on writing, coding, lifting, investing. Real time, live feedback.
- Create a “Growth Repoâ€: a shared Notion or GitHub where you dump all your routines, spreadsheets, and habit templates.
4. BUILD YOUR TRIBE-RITUALS
- Weekly Accountability Crucible: 5-person group, 5 km ruck, 5-minute ice-bath, 5-minute honest audit.
- Victory Shout-outs: Publicly celebrate one gain from each member every week—humility and hype combined.
- Signal-vs-Noise Rule: Cull any voice that demotivates—only builders, sharers, and challengers remain.
5. TRACK THEIR GAINS
DOMAIN | METRIC | CHECK-IN QUESTION |
Body | PR on 1 compound lift | “Are you stronger than last week?†|
Mind | Essays / commits | “Did your output outpace distractions?†|
Wallet | BTC / revenue growth | “Is your runway and stack increasing?†|
Skill | New frameworks built | “Can you teach this to someone else?†|
Run a 15-minute monthly audit with each person: rapid metrics, real talk, next-level targets.
6. DEPLOY CAPITAL STRATEGICALLY
- Micro-grants in sats: Automate Monday morning $10–$50 BTC drops to your top three apprentices.
- Equity splits in side-projects: Trade small stakes in your ventures for sweat equity from hungry builders.
- Resource swaps: If you’ve mastered one domain, exchange lessons or time with someone who’s a master in another.
7. CULTIVATE A LEGACY MINDSET
- Ask each person: “What impact will your work have 10 years from now?â€
- Press them to write their own Memento Unborn-Legacies—the vision for who they’ll empower.
- Link their weekly micro-actions back to that 10-year impact to keep them fueled by purpose.
YOUR NEXT STEPS
- Pick one person you truly want to see win.
- Schedule a 30-minute “Growth Kickoff†call this week.
- Send them a “God Set†challenge before the call: lift/sprint/write—whatever will stretch them.
- Share your personal Growth Repo link, and ask them to clone it.
- Lock in a weekly check-in—no excuses.
Wanting the best for others is the ultimate gain. Now systemize it, amplify it, and watch them ascend—because strong shit uplifts not just yourself, but everyone in your circle. Go lead the charge.
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POWER THROUGH SERVICE
(Eric-Kim mode: fists clenched, heart open, no contradictions—only integration.)
1. **REFRAME “HELPING†AS
MULTIPLIER POWER
- Victim charity = tossing scraps from the table.
- Empowerment charity = building the table, teaching carpentry, handing them the blueprint.
- Desire the best for others not by pity, but by transferring strength. When you level yourself up, the overflow funds their ascent.
“Become a fountain, not a bowl. Fountains splash abundance on everyone in range.†— EK
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THE THREE-TIER ALTRUISM PYRAMID
Tier | Strategy | Litmus Test |
1. Self-Sovereignty | Health, wealth, mindset dialed—so you’re not a burden. | “If I disappeared, would anyone need to rescue me?†|
2. Circle-Uplift | Family, friends, crew: share skills, capital, networks. | “Are my closest people stronger this quarter?†|
3. Public-Source | Open essays, free tools, public code, pro-bono mentoring. | “Is a stranger’s life measurably better because of my output?†|
Ascend tiers sequentially. Skipping Tier 1 is fake virtue; skipping Tier 3 is hoarding.
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TACTICAL PLAYBOOK: HARDCORE HELPING
- Codify What You Know
- Ship micro-courses, GitHub repos, 1-pager playbooks.
- Open license them. “Steal my code, surpass me†energy.
- Invest, Don’t Donate
- Micro-equity in a friend’s hustle > coffee-money handout.
- Teach them to custody BTC; wire sats, not sympathy.
- Run a Weekly War-Room
- 60-minute Zoom or local café huddle.
- Agenda: wins, blockers, immediate next action.
- No complaining—only requests and commitments.
- Create Public Artifacts of Growth
- Publish gym programs, revenue dashboards, reading lists.
- Transparent metrics inspire and instruct simultaneously.
- Enforce Standards, Not Feelings
- Spot a friend’s sloppy deadlift? Correct it on the spot.
- Truth hurts once; a busted spine hurts forever.
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PHILOSOPHICAL BACKBONE
- Stoic Paradox: Virtue = excellence in function. A good human excels at making humans good.
- Skin in the Game: Your advice only matters if you’d stake BTC on its success.
- Infinite Game: Helping others isn’t subtraction—it’s network-effect immortality. Every ally you create enlarges your frontier of impact.
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RAPID-FIRE IMPLEMENTATION TODAY
- Audit your top three skills.
- Package each into a 1-page PDF.
- Upload to your blog / Dropbox / anywhere within 24 hours.
- DM it to five people who could use it.
- Follow up in a week: “Did it help? What broke? Let’s iterate.â€
CLOSING MANDATE
Want the best for others? Forge the best version of yourself, then turn your life into open-source armor they can wear.
That’s not soft—that’s savage benevolence.
Be the storm that waters crops.