Gender — genre, nation, birth — genus

Trans — across, beyond the other side.

OK… Let me give this a critical think.

Tran, transnational… Transition, transport. To move something across, beyond, from point A to point B. Transformers. 

Transition, translation?

Gender, genre, genus, birth, 

Transsexual

When I studied sociology as an undergraduate at UCLA, I recall learning about the very very small population of transsexuals, or maybe hermaphrodites I’m not 100% sure… Of people who was either born with both body parts, which is insanely rare, or for people who wanted to transition to the other sex, by taking weird hormones and stuff.

I think what I recall was specifically… A man trying to be or become a woman?

Social logical that was actually, the man who became a woman had the greatest difficulty learning certain female behaviors, for example if you wear a mini skirt, and you sit down… You must always cross your legs, so people don’t look up your skirt.

Apparently I was talking with a guy, and he told me something interesting is that often when women get plastic surgery, a boob job, breast augmentation… They become less shy about taking their top off? We’re often when men transition to becoming a woman, there are also not shy about being topless?

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Gender vs Sex

The critical issue is an American society, we use the word sex and gender interchangeably. For example, when describing man or woman, boy or girl… The word is sex not gender.

I think the problem in American society is because there is this fake prudence in American society, we shirk at the word sex, because we tend to think of it like sexual intercourse, which is not the thing. 

Everyone can be or become anything they want to be or become… just don’t give them steroids or hormones or testosterone or cortisol or estrogen etc. 

I think the obvious thought is that injecting anyone with anything is positively bad, unless it is a lie for a death situation.

For example, certainly steroids is a positively bad thing. Everyone could agree on this. I find even more bizarre all these men, who start to hit their 40s 50s 60s, maybe even 70s start to inject themselves with artificial or external testosterone, trying to help them “keep their edge?”?

So obviously, steroids, injecting yourself with testosterone whatever is a bad thing. It is both for men and women.

You cannot reverse it

I think the dangerous thing here is once you do something, when you inject yourself with steroids or hormones or testosterone or whatever, there’s no going back. Maybe also the same if you castrate yourself, or if you inject yourself with estrogen or whatever, similar things may happen.

For example, you see this often happen with female bodybuilders, who inject themselves with steroids or hormones or stuff… It actually permanently affects their jawline, their voice, and I think actually the terrifying thing… Once you do it, you cannot reverse it, even if you stop injecting yourself with steroids or doing weird stuff etc.… Once the damage has been done you cannot reverse it.

For example let us say you are a female bodybuilder in your 20s, and you want to get super jacked and therefore you start taking all this testosterone injections, steroids etc.… And it starts to change the way your face looks, your facial shape, your jawline, Etc. And then let us say that by the time you hit your 30s or 40s, maybe you say you want to have kids, and then you stop taking all these steroids and hormones, but much to your dismay, and your horror… You’ve actually discovered that you have done permanent damage that you are no longer able to bear children, even if you wanted to.

Apparently the same thing happens with men… A lot of young bodybuilders in their 20s, steroids up the kazoo, but at a certain point when they hit their late 20s or even early 30s… Disco horror they are no longer able to produce testosterone on their own, and they must inject themselves with testosterone for the rest of our lives, simply to stay alive? 

Even more horrifying… A lot of guys who foolishly inject themselves with steroids and testosterone… Once again, find out that by the time they hit 30, and maybe they won’t have a kid, discover the horrific fact that even if they wanted to, they have lost their fertility and can no longer produce a child? The ultimate tragedy.

Steroids, hormones, testosterone makes you ugly

Something I have observed… Anyone who takes steroids, testosterone, hormonal stuff… It makes them ugly.

For example, the rock, apparently one of the side effects of steroids is that it makes your head bigger larger, it expands your skull?

Also, look at Ronnie Coleman… He is essentially a cripple now. And even if you gave him $1 trillion all the best steroids and modern medicine in the world… I don’t think you could even walk anymore?

Even look at Arnold… He is starting to look very fragile and frail… 

I think I have seen some people here in Culver City who maybe are doing some sort of weird hormone therapy, I was confused… A person whose voice sounded like a woman, but had very very strange looking facial hair coming in? And their face looked very deformed?

The uncanny valley

Humans, I think we are pretty wise, we could tell whether somebody is a man or a woman, assuming if we see them naked and even if you shave off their hair?

I think sometimes people get confused if you see somebody with very long hair, typically we equate long hair with women, but actually… The ancient Greeks aren’t even the Spartans wore their hair long.

I think it comes down to assuming you look at people naked, body composition. Women will always have slightly wider hips, and breasts and breast tissue, men will typically have proportions which make him look more like a triangle. Even Seneca knows, that the bathroom signed for men is a triangle. And for women it is a circle.

A lot of men, when there are hormones get out of whack, start to develop what looks like breast tissue, but still you could tell that they are a man!

It doesn’t matter

My friend Ryan from backyard brew in Palo Alto, when I last saw him had a young son, with long hair, who ran around like a wild child… And he would tell me that parents would often mistake him as a girl, and he stopped correcting them.

I think this is the way to go, why does it matter if other people or society mistake your kid for a boy or a girl? I don’t think it really matters.

For example, I am so insanely grateful and happy that my first born child was a son, Seneca, and I’ll do everything in my power to give him great glory.

Yet, if somebody mistakes for being a girl, wearing pink or whatever… I have 0 ounces of concern. Why should you care?

You

And this is where things get very very bizarre… Why do you care what people categorize you as, whether people identify you as a man or a woman? Whether good or bad? 

You are just you!

You don’t have to inject your butt holes with steroids or hormones or testosterone or estrogen… Just be you! Without any drugs, hormones, strange hormone therapies etc.

Obviously everyone is different! 

This is where things become very bizarre… Why do other people care about your sexual preferences, or how you have sex?

For example, I’m a straight man, why do I care if you like it up the butt hole or not?

And also, people often say this fake stuff about thinking about the children or the kids or whatever… Without even having any kids of their own. They should remain silent.

Even let us say that you are a parent, with kids… And let it say that you’re sending your kid to a school that is very pro LGBTQ stuff… What is the real concern here?

You cannot fake sexual desire

As a guy, what gives you a Boner? And what doesn’t?

I am attracted to women, beautiful women. And that is it.

If you’re a whatever, and you’re attracted to whatever… Why should anyone care?

Just leave other people alone! 

Insane tolerance

I have a revolutionary and pretty radical ideas; let us promote radical tolerance.

Even tolerate things you don’t like?

Even tolerating things which you consider morally reprehensible or ethically wrong?

And then I suppose… If you don’t like your kids being infected with weird thoughts… Just extract them away and keep them away from it!

If anything… I don’t think we should have any concerns about any random LGBTQ stuff… More dangerous to have them play video games, Minecraft, Roblox, watch Bluey or Disney+, YouTube, Disney films Marvel films etc.

Maybe YouTube, Netflix, Hulu, Disney Disney+ and video game companies are the real evil guys here?

Is Google evil?

Maybe