Fuck the banks — owning crypto or Bitcoin, you no longer need the banks as a custodian of your money?

Also,,, having to send simple wire transfers of 105k, 125k etc,,, why does this require me to waste 3 hours on a phone with a real life human being, verification whatever,,, when simply on a Bitcoin or crypto wallet, I can easily send 1 or 2 Bitcoins (currency valued at around $69k, $138k—),,, in a matter of seconds or minutes?

Why do I have to “prove” this is me before doing the thing?